Sunday, 4 December 2016

We miss you ayah

It has been quite a scare when Ummi informed us that Ayah was unwell during their trip for umrah.

He feels pained quite a few days back, to be exact on Monday, due to his surgery scar last year. My parents has been waiting so long for this umrah, but rhey have to postpone it due to Ayah's health and need for an urgent operation.

Then, we lost contact with both my parents. It gave us quite a scare that I think all of us (his daughters) were crying since we cannot reached Ummi or Ayah, through any medium form of communication.

Afiqah had the agent's contact number, and Aini decided to call the agent the next day, since the company is situated in Shah Alam.

My husband contacted the mosque's nazir to ask for his help to contact my father.

Alhamdulillah, Ayah suddenly enable his data roaming services and decided to answer all the text messages.

He has been sick for a few days already, and has recovered slowly.

We love you Ayah and Ummi.
Enjoy your umrah and please stay healthy.

Love,
Aida

Friday, 18 November 2016

Terima kasih untuk usahamu


Alhamdulillah, semalam telah diumumkan keputusan UPSR 2016. Anak-anak ramai yang kecewa, sedih dan terkejut. Keputusan sebenar terlalu berbeza dengan keputusan percubaan.

Tiba di sekolah dalam jam 10 pagi. Fawwaz sudah menanti di kantin sekolah. Keputusan pun sebenarnya sudah diketahui melalui perkhidmatan SMS. Cuma didiamkan sahaja agar biar Fawwaz sendiri yang tahu dari gurunya.

Harapan ibu bapa, semestinya 6A. Melihat penurunan yang sangat drastik bagi sekolah-sekolah di Malaysia, menyebabkan saya bersyukur Fawwaz mendapat keputusan yang dikira agak baik. Dari sekolahnya, 4 orang telah mendapat 6A, 15 orang mendapat 5A, 16 orang = 4A. Bilangan calon adalah dalam 320 orang.

Fawwaz telah mendapat 3A, 2B dan 1C.

I love you to the moon and back.

Walaupun mungkin bagi kebanyakan ibubapa, keputusan yang @fawwazamin_ hadiahkan untuk kami mungkin kategori biasa-biasa. Berapa ramai anak-anak yang pilu dan menangis apabila keputusan diumumkan.

Mencabar hendak membesarkan khalifah Allah ini. Malahan, UPSR yang lalu sebenarnya membebankan emosi anak-anak dengan harapan yang menggunung.

Maka, haruslah ibubapa tersenyum, peluk anak-anak kalian. Mereka sudah dari mula bersusah payah dan memberikan yang terbaik untuk kita. Sekiranya kita kecewa, fikirkanlah hati anak yang berderai umpama kaca yang retak itu. Walaupun hanya berumur 12 tahun, sudah tentu mereka juga boleh berfikir dan mempunyai hati dan perasaan.

Sesungguhnya UPSR 2016 adalah sebuah ujian sebagai ukuran adakah cinta kita kepada anak-anak itu bersyarat atau tidak.

Dan saya memilih untuk meraikannya walaupun dia tidak memberikan semua A, malahan berwarna warni, hanya kerana usahanya.




Saya suka tazkirah ini

Aku Membesarkan Seorang Khalifah (AMSK)
Hari ini Keputusan UPSR : 💖SAYANG TANPA BERSYARAT

oleh : UBF, Islamic Psychologist/ Motivator

Assalamualaikum wbt👍
Buat ayah ibu tahun 6, 2016, Insya Allah hari ini ayah ibu akan menanti📋keputusan UPSR anak. Anak2 pula penuh dgn debaran, risau dgn keputusan. Dan yg lebih mereka risau dan takut adalah respon ayah ibu.

Buat ayah ibu...👪
Keputusan UPSR hari inj bukan semata2 kegerunan buat anak2 malahan ujian besar buat kita. Allah uji kita bagaimana kita mahu respon setelah mengetahui keputusan UPSR anak.
✔peluk sambil nangis
✔cium
✔tepuk bahu anak
✔marah
✔kecewa
✔sedih
✔cubit, tarik telinga

Macam2 andaian yg bakal berlaku. Ayah ibu pun mcm dah set je nak respon macam mana kan..😅 Sabar... Baca ni dulu.

❔Soalnya, adakah respon kita bergantung dgn keputusan UPSR anak?

❌Kalau begitu, ertinya sayang kita bersyarat kan... Sayang ketika berjaya, benci atau marah bila gagal. Dan 1 kesilapan yg besar kalau sayang bila berjaya marah bila gagal. Kerana keputusan berjaya ataupun gagal bukan urusan anak2 kita, apatah lagi kita. Itu urusan Allah yg memang kita tak boleh nak campurtangan. Bagaimana ayah ibu boleh menentang ketetapan Allah?

🙋Ye tau, yang ayah ibu marah bukan sbb gagal, tapi sbb anak tak belajar dan tak sungguh2 belajar. UBF cadangkan 1 cara terbaik utk respon kpd anak2 yg masih belum berjaya terutamanya yg main2 belajar.
🆗1. Peluk cium
🆗2. Nangis (kalau boleh😊)
🆗3. Dan cakap baik2 begini dgn anak,
        
          "Rasa apa bang? Sedih? Nampak kan bila main2 belajar, abg x dpt A. Abg gagal. Tp gagal pun ayah tetap sayang abg. Mmg ayah sedih abg x berjaya UPSR tp ayah lg sedih kalau abg x solat, tak dgr ckp ayah ibu. Klu abg x dpt nk gembirakan ayah n ibu dgn 6A pun takpe... abg gembirakan kami dgn solat dan dgr ckp ayah ibu ok."

🔮Yelah... nak marah pun result dh dapat kan...bukan boleh ubah pun. Dah tu, baiklah ckp baik2. Sbb dgn marah meretakkan hubungan. Walaupun dah tau keputusan tak boleh diubah, tapi sekurang-kurangnya dgn bercakap baik2 kita membina hubungan yg bahagia. Anak pun selesa, ayah ibu pun bahagia.

Hidup Mati Biarlah Bererti
Ust Bakhtiar Fitri Hj Abdul Hamid (UBF) 0196501002, Perunding Utama NADI ILMU Training Management


Just a stat

/nst

UPSR 2016: Under new exam format,  4,896 pupils (3,174 in urban & 1,722 rural) scored straight As.-Edu DG Khair

Last year, 38,344 pupils obtained As in all subjects.

Monday, 14 November 2016

My dear Firzanah,

Happy 13th birthday!

You have grown older and taller than me.

Thank you for being helpful around the house, and always help your little brother with the constant battle of changing his diapers, and making his milk.

I am ever grateful for the only daughter that I have. I know that you yearned for a sister, everytime I got pregnant. You have been blessed with 4 brothers.

Love you, always,
Ibu,
your own version of tiger mom

Thursday, 10 November 2016

Happy birthday Fawwaz (with a broken arm)

 He celebrated his birthday with a broken right arm. Fractured and dislocated.

Last Friday, we rushed him to the Emergency Department at Hospital Tawakkal. He was admitted immediately. Operation was scheduled the next day by the orthopedic surgeon.

Amni called me at 2 p.m. to inform about Fawwaz. And my husband rushed back home as soon as possible. He was wailing non stop.

 That is how his broken arm looks like, before the operation. Broken *gasps*

Before entering the operation theatre.

 During observation after operation. The operation was around 40 minutes.

Went there on Saturday. He was still on sedative. Vomiting non stop after operation. He was aware I was there, but he dozed off because of anesthesia effect, In fact, he did not eat anything at all. The nurse put on the drip for him.

 Cousins and grandparents went to visit him.
 
The x-ray after the operation. The doctor has to insert 3 wires.

Fawwaz missed his primary school graduation today. And another celebration on Saturday. He is OK with it, and I took long leave for one week.

Wednesday, 9 November 2016

Fateh is 7!



Alhamdulillah, he is 7 today and went to school this morning as usual. Birthdays are really not a big event in our family. Usually, it will be like 'Happy Birthday' then we went for makan-makan. And since we have 3 November babies in the house, usually it will be a sharing of one big cake and they will take turn to cut it.

Anyhow, Fateh shared the same birthday as Fawwaz (I will put up another post on Fawwaz, as not to overshadow Fateh). Fateh is a very introvert person. He is very quiet, thus once I feared that he might not understand what he was learning during his kindergarten years. Then, it was like his potential being unlocked (April 2015) to be exact, and he started to talk and asking the teachers questions.

He was awarded as top student by the end of the year (quite to the shock of his parents). To be fair, the kindergarten students was around 20 persons. But still, it was an achievement for Fateh.

He is already in Standard 1, and suddenly, he is very active participating in the school sport and boria Hari Kebangsaan. His class teacher mentioned about his quiet personality, but that's just Fateh. He inherited that personality from his father.

Happy birthday Fateh! Let us celebrate your birthday later... I love you.